I married into a family who thinks traveling is like breathing: It's just done. I, the ever-easy-going person that I am, play along for the sake of family harmony. So when it was decided a girls trip to Switzerland was happening in October, and I was asked to go along, I did my sister-in-law duty and went along. You know, for family harmony and all.
Leeda's friend, Gunilla, lives in France, just outside of Geneva. We all flew in at different times (Leeda went a day early, Kajja was flying in from a work trip in Nepal) and once we were together, Gunilla drove us to Montreux. Montreux is a resort town on Lake Geneva (Lac Lemans to locals), about an hour and a half from Geneva. We stayed at a great B&B there and wore ourselves out with the walking, eating and shopping. We also took a train up to the peak of Rochers de Naye, one of the mountains above Montreux.
Rochers de Naye is a lovely place with lovely views and the plan is to go back for my 40th birthday (if not sooner so my knees can handle the hiking) to stay in a yurt. We walked around a bit on the trails and met a man who had hiked to the top of the mountain. He was also very lovely (*wink*) and we invited him to partake of some eau-de-vie (fruit brandy) we had gotten at the train station gift shop. One of the things I love about Europe is that you can buy individual shot glasses of brandy at 6700 feet and no one blinks an eye when you pull them out.
So, there we are, on top of a mountain, doing shots with a foreign hiker and taking pictures. After the hiker went on his way, literally running down the mountain, we decided to do yoga poses. This decision had nothing at all to do with the fact the brandy we had was 80 proof. But it was a gorgeous place to do yoga all the same.
We 3 Americans hung around Montreux an extra day and we wanted to try the ultimate Swiss experience: fondue. Except fondue isn't as mainstream Swiss as the Americans think it is and there was really only one fondue restaurant close to where we were. Melting Pot it's not. The restaurant was very much a tourist trap with a painted cow at the entrance and gnomes all over the place. Also, it smelled awful. Leeda said it was a particular kind of sausage so while I was wary, I was going to get over it. Then we got the menus. Their house specialty is horse. I immediately associated the awful smell with cooked horse and got all woozy headed and faint. I seriously thought I was about to pass out and kind of relayed that to the sisters. After a little discussion, where it was discussed I'm an overreacting wus, we left. Kajja was a bit interested in my reaction because she's vegetarian and has somewhat the same reaction to ALL meat. The only thing I could come up with is this: in the States, we use horses as work companions and most other animals we eat are raised as meat. Yes, it's a weak argument. Yes, I eat cow, pig, chicken, fish, etc. I just couldn't fathom being in a restaurant where the smiling man next to me was happily eating Black Beauty. I am a hypocrite.
Aside from the horse eating people, I LOVED Switzerland. It's quaint in a huge European kind of way, everyone speaks English (as does everyone in Europe but the Swiss are nice about speaking it with you) and US dollars are accepted in Geneva. USD being accepted in Geneva is important when you've run out of Swiss Francs but would like to purchase chocolate and a watch.
If this were 1978, I would invite you over for drinks and show you a slide show. As it is, you can pour yourself a glass of wine before viewing: http://www.flickr.com/photos/21041037@N07/sets/72157625551654656/
Tuesday, December 7, 2010
Friday, December 3, 2010
Perplexed
Things that perplex me, in no certain order:
- Actors on kids' shows. Do the hosts on The Sunny Side Up Show really love their job? What about the actors on The Fresh Beat Band? I doubt they make a ton of money so there has to be some love, right? Are they hoping for the next big break? Did they lose a bet? I'm intrigued.
- My children. I love them. I love them more than anything in the world. How do they drive me so crazy?
- Doctors, their "policies"and how those policies aren't always effective. Tater and I once waited on a neurologist for over 2 hours. I had to drive an hour and half home and it was already 4pm, so I decided to leave before Tater ever saw the doctor and you can bet I was determined to never go back. But Tater's pulmonologist really wants him to see this particular neuro. The appointment has been made and I received a notice that states: If you are more than 15 minutes late for your appointment, you will not be seen and the appointment will not be rescheduled. I'm sure they say this is so they don't get backed up and have to make patients wait. Ha. Hahahahaha. Not funny.
- How a loving God would pick my child to have the burden of a special needs life. How a compassionate God would take a sweet little boy named Angus, who had the most gorgeous smile and who dealt with so much in his short life, away from his family. How a nurturing God would let any sweet child deal with any obstacle. I don't get it. I'm reading When Bad Things Happen to Good People by Harold Kushner. I hope I can find some perspective.
- (full circle here) Is Dr. Scott the Paleontologist the most dynamic paleontologist they could find to host a children's show? Is dynamic paleontologist an oxymoron? Dr. Scott is cute, he obviously knows his dinosaurs, but he's lacking a certain je ne sais quois I've come to expect in my children's programming.
Sunday, November 28, 2010
Thanksgiving
We headed to South Carolina for Thanksgiving. We were able to see Mr. A's extended family and had a wonderful time being with that side of the clan. We ate dinner at Gigi's house on Thursday and enjoyed being with all 23 of the people there. My camera stayed in my purse the entire weekend so there is no photographic evidence of the fun had. The boys are definitely grateful for their cousins, 'Pencer and Lucas, and love them very much.
We drove home Friday night. Mr. A insisting on watching the Iron Bowl before we left-wow, way to go Auburn-WAR EAGLE!!- so we didn't leave until it was over and got in very late. Saturday we got up early and went to Coco and Papa's house where we ate lots of food despite not being hungry at all. It was the epitome of being a glutton-being full from a late breakfast but getting a plate of food at lunch then repeating that cycle a few hours later when the gathering moved to Grandma and Bill's house. I am still full.
I'm now sitting on the couch while the boys are piled up on Mr. A in a chair. They're all giggling and laughing and saying nonsense words and being happy. I'm so very, very thankful for my family-my boys, all 3 of them, mean the world to me.
And so I can look back at this and remember all that I have:
-I'm thankful Mr. A's family has accepted me as one of their own in spite of my inability to filter the things that leave my mouth.
-I'm thankful my boys have close cousins and that we get to see them fairly often.
-I'm thankful my parents live close by.
-I'm thankful for my dad who can do literally anything and cooks breakfast for us even though we were late and the kitchen had already been cleaned from the previous breakfast.
-I'm thankful for my mom who loves her grandkids and literally drives all over tarnation to make sure they are taken care of. I'm especially grateful for how much she helps me with my kids and jumps in to take over whenever there is a Tater-related medical event. And for her gardening knowledge.
-I'm thankful for my sweet nieces and nephews-although one of those nephews is now 15, is no longer baby-sweet but is becoming a man and it blows my mind how fast he has grown up.
-I'm thankful for my sisters and brother, Mr. A's sisters, all of their spouses and how well we all get along even though we are all so different.
-I'm thankful for Memaw, Grandma Burns and Grandpa Bill-I'm so lucky to have my grandparents.
-I'm thankful for Tater's nurse, Pat, who just became a grandmother but loves my kids like they were her first grandchildren.
-I'm thankful I am able to complain about being full and still have food to consume.
-I'm thankful for being tired from a family-filled weekend.
-I'm thankful for my kids. Kisses from those 2 stinky boys are the most wonderful thing in the world.
-I'm thankful for my most awesome husband. He is the best father and he is my best friend.
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